Flirting and getting women interested

[justinsane]

well, watch the movie Hitch. and while your waiting, heres some tips from your friendly ladies man..

1. TALK to her. LISTEN to what she says, and RESPOND
2. dont be an ass, dont talk crap about people
3. keep the drug use on the DL until you know what she thinks about it.
4. keep her happy by just being nice and always willing to talk.

justinsane Reviewed by justinsane on 05-04-2005. Flirting and getting women interested Im utterly shit at flirting and talking to women, whats the best way to get a girl interested? Im an 18 yr old virgin whose had one girlfriend which was for about 3 weeks and ive only ever kissed 2 different girls. Im ok when I'm pissed or stoned but when sober im crap. Also, i'm shit at picking up signals from girls that like me. Some help please... Rating: 5

[RIP ODB]

Here's a good pick-up line that I often use:

Excuse me, but did I mention that I have a penis?

-DB

[maryjanemama]

Just don't analyze it. If a guy acts like hes trying to flirt, its annoying. Just talk, find things you have in common, tell each other stories and shit. Your personality should be what attracts a girl.

Absolutely true. Guys who are acting all flirty are easy to spot. Girls can pick up on players. Remember...she's just a girl! She's no cooler than you and probably just as nervous.

[spliffstar22]

No girls give a fuck i smoke herb and shit. Everyone knows i smoke weed, and i still get girls....But if your talkin to a girl outside of school, as someone said, keep it DL...

[DonnieDarko]

Just some pointers (from experience. YES I was an 18 year old virgin):

1) Be yourself (mentioned above)
2) Don't be needy or desparate. You're only 18, when you're a 40 year old virgin, that's desparate. I don't believe in picking up signals. If a girl thinks yur hot, she'll find an obvious way to let you know.
3) Sense of humor makes up for alot. Funny can equate to confidence and confidence is everything.
4) Look past looks, dating an ugly girl just for confidence isn't the worse thing.
5) Find someone like you, with your interests. There are plenty of females in the same position as you.
6) If all that fails, make LOTS of $$$$. There are NO millionaire virgins. Making money leads to confidence and confidence is EVERYTHING.

[hoodedclum]

theres no secret formula, dont over think it just be your self. i think one of the most important things is having a sense of humour, if you come over all serious at first that can be a real off put, so try and have a giggle and just chill dont over do it.

[Edd]

jsut be yourself really, i have a very down to earth personality and girls seem to like that and i have been told that im funny just through everyday speach without having to try.

so just talk to her dont get all anxoious and keep conversation going, dont appear desperate but show you are interested and you should be on to a winner.

oh and if she has a problem with you taking drugs just dont do them around her, and dont brag e.g. "i smoked 2 ounces last week" you may as well just say "i think iam cool because i smoke weed" girls really dont like it when you brag.

If they do have a major problem with you taking drugs dont tell them you will quit just for them because i tried that once and my gf found me lying un-consious in the local park 2 hours after i was supposed to meet her. to say the least she wasnt very happy.

[TheLion]

Confidence is key man, absolutely key. Confident and funny works every time...

[NoosaHeads]

WURD LOIN ^^^^ also You gotta Have a Big cock or BIG wallet....(really it helps)...jk..

Confidence A woman Likes a Guy who Knows who he is and is not over confident but puts out an oura of Yeah Im happy with who I am....

along with the other great advice the board members have given you'll be up to your Nuts in guts no time....

[psychocat]

Show her your BITS !!! lol