That is what I am saying we all need to be responsible for our selves. I am not advocating that because of a bad child hood you have the rite to act out side the rules of society.

I am merely saying that it is easy to judge when your life has been easy. Try it from the inner city it is a little tougher if your are not strong. Unfortunately like the idiot above we are a materialistic society.

It is pushed in our faces daily and the haves will always be victims of the have nots. Because the have nots feel they are oppressed by the haves. It may be perspective and sometimes it is reality.

Remember that we are a society and societal norms are what define our behaviors. So if your white middle or upper class than your accepted norms are different than a black from the inner city. His peers have a different mind set of accepted behaviors. Also remember that norms change. Is that not what everyone on this forum wants is to change the norm for MJ?

The one thing I got out of college is there are two types of fair state and county. Yes I am the exception I was smart enough to recognize that in order to live in a society you must play by the rules. But never forget rules are different for different societies. Look at the Muslims they believe it is acceptable to stone a women to death and that is acceptable in their society.

I guess the best thing I can say is do unto others as you would have done unto you. Try and teach your fellow man a different path and when you realize it is a lost cause walk away.

Can you tell at first I was a Psyche Major before being a nerd. I quit because I am not empathetic nor sympathetic and can not handle the excuses that people cry out when saying poor me I had a bad child hood.

In a lot of ways I am callas and numb like the dink above. It is just that I understand it from both points of view. So again I say we must be responsible for our selves.

The funny thing is people like him come to an argument of wits with out the ability to communicate effectively they can only bash. It is sad it shows a lack of respect for others and insecurity in one self.