Bend the tall ones over and you don't need side lights. If you want side lights I would go with the T5's. Who told you not to touch the leaves ? Touch any part just try not to rub off all the trichomes off the buds.

All in all it looks very good. Try not to worry too much. I have let mine go just like that till they grew up and burned on the light. You know what, only one or two will do that. They like me have learned that light is super hot. The buds right up close to the light that burn alittle are the best.