Hey

If its starts budding IN the microwave...your friend smokes too much. The male pollinates the females....if you want seeds its ok, but if you want to have nice buds with no seeds, separate or kill the male simply. Seeds is not apreciated in a good bud...so if you want some, just saparate the mal from the rest of the females(in an other room) and then put a female near it....she will have seeds, but if you dant need seeds, just kill the male and get on with it.

See ya hope this will help