No seriously guys y'know what I mean??

When I think of all the running around buying shit and trying to pretend to somone that I'm not just to get with some chick..setting up dates n spending shitloads of money...

Or better yet spending perhaps years of your life with a steady who turns around and says "I want to do something else with my life" and then you run into them awhile down the road to discover they are a fucking cashier??

Then they say something like "well at least its on my own terms" and your like fuck, whatever, and then you say to yourself, well Im glad im not there anymore..

I dunno the positive thinker will probably say "its part of your life experience" but I say FUCK IT some experience are just life-wasters we could all do without...

I spent seven years with one girl 2 years with another and three years with another.. after that I met a girl got married and been happily married for eight years..and when in a relationship neither party cheated..it was other things..like your future goals and view of life...

It just seems that I could have used alot of that twelve years maybe doing something good for me or for that matter , for the world...

I dont hate, disrespect women...just an opinion from a guy's point of view...