[QUOTE=ermitonto] but I've never been the kind of guy who changes his physical appearance just to conform to the newest standard of cool (which is admittedly probably part of my problem, but I don't want a woman who only wants me because I look cool enough and besides I have had girls compliment me on my hair before).
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Listen bro, I know it sucks ass, but you really should cut the hair.

The reason girls compliment your hair is because they have similar hair, and you probably keep it clean and straight, which some girls just can't do.

What it comes down to is this: What's more important? Getting laid, or maintaining your "I dont do what other guys do" attitude? Think about it. You think I like wearing nice clothes and getting pretty to go to parties? Hell no, but I do it because girls notice.

And to be perfectly honest, girls are shallow. Guys are too, but so are girls.

Remember this - Attraction will reel a girl in, but personality will cause her to stay. And I don't care if you're the ugliest dude ever, if you're confident in yourself and you can make them laugh here and there, you should be all right. I'm a pretty ugly dude but I have nailed a few hotties with jokes and confidence. (And grey goose)

And Encatuse is right, I was stuck in the "friend zone" for a long time, and it's pretty hard to get with chicks like that. You don't have to act like a real jerk , but you do have to act like your shit don't stink a little bit.

I dunno, maybe I'm wrong, but that's all the help i can offer you right now.

To sum it all up, conformity is scary, but you have to at least fit the mold for a good looking guy. Short hair definately helps.

Also, here's one last question for you to ponder because I'm baked -

How many short-haired girls are cute? not many right? Unless you're talking cameron Diaz...

How many long haired guys are attractive? not many, either.

that's all for now. Encatuse, feel free to enlighten me with more wisdom, you seem like you have been around the block a few times. (Are you gay though?)