Wow, I think I may be being cheated on...

[rebgirl420]

Yeah...by the new guy Robby.

It hurts to breath and I feel like I'm going to throw up. Somethings awry here guys....

Somethings awry I can just feel it.




Oh god, oh god........

rebgirl420 Reviewed by rebgirl420 on 09-24-2009. Wow, I think I may be being cheated on... Yeah...by the new guy Robby. It hurts to breath and I feel like I'm going to throw up. Somethings awry here guys.... Somethings awry I can just feel it. Oh god, oh god........ Rating: 5

[psychocat]

I know this may not be of much comfort but , if someone cheats on you then you're better off without them.
Relationships are as much about trust as they are about anything else, when a person cheats it destroys trust, once that happens it's best to cut your losses and move on. In my mind if someone cheats it shows a complete disregard for the feelings of thier partner and if they don't care about your feelings then why should you give a damn about thiers ?

I know it's a cliche but "you deserve better" , that is of course assuming your fears are proven justified.

I hope for your sake that you are wrong.

[rebgirl420]

Yeah I found out after I moved in with him that he may have cheated on his ex with me and I had no clue. If I did I would have never hung out with him. I figure if he did it with her he'd do it with me. So after he came clean about that shit has been really weird and tense. That trust is gone you know so now I'm taking everything that he does that is semi-shady as he is cheating.

He has plenty of friends who are girls which is okay I suppose but he's really weird about it and secretive. Then today I found the history on the computer and he has been looking at personal ads and when I confronted him about it he said it was "just for laughs".

[rebgirl420]

And now he erased the histories and put passwords up...

Yeah somethings awry...

[psychocat]

well,,, if I'm honest I would have to say that he's not doing a great deal to put your mind at rest.
There are keyloggers available that enable you to find out what anyone is doing on a computer, they're often sold as a means for parents to spy on thier kids.
My only real advice would be (assuming guilt) ,kick him out on his arse.
I live by the rule of never accepting less than I believe I'm worth.
Sounds like it's time for you to do some serious weighing up , don't sell yourself short, only you can make the decisions that shape your future.
Good luck :thumbsup:

[DOUGAL25]

Relationships are as much about trust as they are about anything else, when a person cheats it destroys trust, once that happens it's best to cut your losses and move on.

True that, found it out the hard way
:stoned:

[Islandborn]

Happens to the best of us. Move on and forget it, clearly they werent a true friend. Don't think you will have much trouble moving on.

[rebgirl420]

I demanded that we sit down and discuss this nonsense.

He told me that he would never cheat and that if he decided things weren't working out he'd sit down and talk to me about it before he did anything.

But hey, isn't that what everyone gets told?

I dunno, I told him we need to build our trust back up if we want things to be where they were before. He agreed and I suppose we'll both work on it. I love him to death but I refuse to put up with this shit for much longer.

If stuff doesn't improve in a month I'm tucking and rolling.

[NextLineIsMine]

And you just met the guy a few weeks ago. Not to sound negative but I can smell the death of your relationship from the other side of the world

[rebgirl420]

I've known him for almost 2 months.




Yeah I know. It's a shame too. I'm not giving up yet though. This is how John and I started and we were together for 5 years and the only reason we broke up was because of my doing.