Wow, I think I may be being cheated on...

[Italiano715]

I also think it should be about compromise just as much as the trust being there. That way when things do go wrong, you will be able to sit down and figure out what needs to be done to fix it.

I find it shady that you (not you, but in general) would need to hide things from your significant other. That's supposed to be your lifeline and your rock. She's supposed to be the one you talk to when you have a shitty day to cheer up.

IDK, but I hope you work everything out with him. It would be a shame to let go of something you felt could be the one. Talking to him directly was a good thing to do! I commend your bravery! LOL Most girls I know seem to talk about problems with their friends rather than TO the problem itself (the guy).

[JohnnyZ]

You should never have to check the history of your significant other's computer. That right there tells you that you don't trust them at all, so you shouldn't be with them.

[8182KSKUSH]

Damn...
I don't know what to say, but you are fucking hot.
Not just physically, but yeah that too, but your perspective and personality, you deserve a bonafied badass stud, just leave him and move on, you can afford to be picky as fuck, and you should be. I don't know any woman anywhere, and have never met a woman that is down like you are, that is also intelligent, and has the um...I dunno, political pov that you do. You are a real catch, and obviously that fuck has no idea or does not appreciate it. Makes me wish I wasn't married, and 1000s of miles away, or a creepy internet forum member telling you this lol. But yeah, drop him like a hot roach lady.

To be honest, I was shocked when you came back to the boards and mentioned that you and John (I think that was his name) were done, and then when you met the new guy, I thought, "geez, what a lucky fuck, hot blonde, down for the dank, strong independent mind, probably be very supportive of growing, has the whole world in front of her, I would have gave my left nut to meet someone like that lol!"

But since I am married, you will have to settle for a second best somewheres lady, but seriously, you are too strong and smart to even waste a second w/ someone like that. You should not even entertain the idea of dating anyone if they aren't top shelf you know? Even if it means you are solo for a while, so be it, you will never be "alone" you know, I am sure you have friends and family, and of course that sweet ass corn cob pipe lol!
I dunno if you are still going into the service or not, but if you aren't, then I say find some passion, like uh, I dunno, GROWING! And if you are still going in, then fine, that will take alot of your time, and you will be able to find your way in life, as well as potentially meet someone. You know, I think, JMHO, the person you should be with isn't exactly the type of person you "want", it's the person that you "need". And it's hard to figure out what kind of person you "need", most people look for the person they "want". If that makes any sense. Put it in gods hands lady, and put your energy into finding passions for your life, the person you "need" will come along, and become a partner in your life w/out you realizing it. The people that you consciously seek out, well....I dunno, like I said, JMHO from experience.
Good luck, I hope you realize what a catch you are, and I hope you drop this asshat, otherwise the person you need in your life you may miss because you are allowing yourself to be distracted by this clown. And I know the kind of person that you are, you would not allow yourself to wander away whilst involved w/ someone, hence, if you are involved w/ this clown, the guy you deserve you won't actually give a chance.
(Of course that would be me, but again, I am already married lol, but I am sure there is a good second best guy out there for ya! You know I would share all my grow w/ ya!" You need a good, smart as fuck, real deal conservative grower guy. I bet there is another one of those out there somewhere, maybe!
Hope all the best for you.:jointsmile:

[Italiano715]

Damn...
I don't know what to say, but you are fucking hot.
Not just physically, but yeah that too, but your perspective and personality, you deserve a bonafied badass stud, just leave him and move on, you can afford to be picky as fuck, and you should be. I don't know any woman anywhere, and have never met a woman that is down like you are, that is also intelligent, and has the um...I dunno, political pov that you do. You are a real catch, and obviously that fuck has no idea or does not appreciate it. Makes me wish I wasn't married, and 1000s of miles away, or a creepy internet forum member telling you this lol. But yeah, drop him like a hot roach lady.

To be honest, I was shocked when you came back to the boards and mentioned that you and John (I think that was his name) were done, and then when you met the new guy, I thought, "geez, what a lucky fuck, hot blonde, down for the dank, strong independent mind, probably be very supportive of growing, has the whole world in front of her, I would have gave my left nut to meet someone like that lol!"

But since I am married, you will have to settle for a second best somewheres lady, but seriously, you are too strong and smart to even waste a second w/ someone like that. You should not even entertain the idea of dating anyone if they aren't top shelf you know? Even if it means you are solo for a while, so be it, you will never be "alone" you know, I am sure you have friends and family, and of course that sweet ass corn cob pipe lol!
I dunno if you are still going into the service or not, but if you aren't, then I say find some passion, like uh, I dunno, GROWING! And if you are still going in, then fine, that will take alot of your time, and you will be able to find your way in life, as well as potentially meet someone. You know, I think, JMHO, the person you should be with isn't exactly the type of person you "want", it's the person that you "need". And it's hard to figure out what kind of person you "need", most people look for the person they "want". If that makes any sense. Put it in gods hands lady, and put your energy into finding passions for your life, the person you "need" will come along, and become a partner in your life w/out you realizing it. The people that you consciously seek out, well....I dunno, like I said, JMHO from experience.
Good luck, I hope you realize what a catch you are, and I hope you drop this asshat, otherwise the person you need in your life you may miss because you are allowing yourself to be distracted by this clown. And I know the kind of person that you are, you would not allow yourself to wander away whilst involved w/ someone, hence, if you are involved w/ this clown, the guy you deserve you won't actually give a chance.
(Of course that would be me, but again, I am already married lol, but I am sure there is a good second best guy out there for ya! You know I would share all my grow w/ ya!" You need a good, smart as fuck, real deal conservative grower guy. I bet there is another one of those out there somewhere, maybe!
Hope all the best for you.:jointsmile:

Sounds like somebodddddy has got a crush!

[8182KSKUSH]

^^LOL

Well, that's pretty safe to admit since nothing would ever come of it, nothing to be ashamed of. IMO she's a hell of a catch, but for someone that isn't married and lives a few thousand miles closer. I will always "root" for ya rebgirl. And if my wife accidentally dies from a severe head injury tomorrow, then I'm gonna get on a bus lol! (JK) (Seriously, I just don't have the money to beat a murder case, and you know the first person they look at is ALWAYS the husband lol!)

[smello]

RUUNNNNN!!!!!RUUNNNNNN!!!!!!!!

[bombdiggity]

woah this got creepy LOL

[Islandborn]

This thread has taken a awkward turn......subject change needed quick.

[psychodelic]

Thank god I'm not the only one who thought this...

I'm sure Kush only meant to compliment....but man, a little creepy....

Kush, are you manic right now?

[rebgirl420]

Hahahahahaha

This thread really made me feel better haha. Kush you are so fantastic. If you weren't married and lived far away we could be partners in crime mwhahaha.

We went for a walk last night to to walk our dog and we talked and talked and talked and oh yeah, talked. So things were good last night after that and today has went well so far.

I layed it on the line for him and told him, "Hey, don't do so bad on my own Skippy" and I think it helped.

We will see I suppose. And hey, if not maybe I'll find a nice stoner guy who has his shit together.