Hah you really do need to stop by my home on a Wednesday night. Lets just say I help people find the things they want. I have quite a few older married guys I help out and unfortunately almost all of them were in the same boat as you. One Wednesday night they all needed some help so I set some things out in my garage and introduced them all to each other. They started their own little mature smokers club in there, they all talk about old fart stuff im bored by so I just let them use my garage and leave them to it. They're regular as a clock and I certainly don't mind, they smoke tons when they get together.