It sounds like they are inviting god into a threesome with, "'Open our hearts to you, to each other and to the goodness of your will."

Also, if someone needs spiritual intervention to place "love" and
"tenderness" in them, they probably need to seek professional help.
JaggedEdge Reviewed by JaggedEdge on . Catholic church issues prayer for faithful to say before sex Give us this day our daily... Catholic church issues prayer for faithful to say before sex By Simon Caldwell Last updated at 8:14 AM on 02nd September 2009 Roman Catholic couples are being encouraged to pray together before they have sex. A book published by a prominent Church group invites those setting out on married life to recite the specially-composed Prayer Before Making Love. It is aimed at 'purifying their intentions' so that the act is not about selfishness or hedonism. Rating: 5