Well I answered my own question. I was going to make milk tea, but I was hungry so I took the fresh male tops, and threw them in a pan with some oil, fried them for about a minute, then threw in some cabbage for a sautee. Sounds weird but the flowers actually had the texture of broccoli so it worked perfect.
Did it work? Oh yea! It even tasted good, I recommend it. I wonder if I'll have vigorous male stamina now LOL