what was your wife thinking???

what were you thinking???

you dont call the cops to come over when you are growing pot and not expect to get busted. maybe its your fault for causing the disturbance, or maybe its hers for calling the cops, but both of you were at fault, regardless of your doctors note, the cops do not care

my advice would be to either grow somewhere else or to get a divorce. it sounds like you are having problems but jail time is not another one you need