the reason you were busted, is standard police procedure, these days ... IF there is another crime being committed (your domestic disturbance), then you will be arrested for the pot, too ... but, you mentioned talking to an attorney, that is EXACTLY what you should be doing, not asking online stoners for advice ... invest in a lawyer, your domestic violence will remain on your record for life, with some of these crazy new laws ... I have a neighbor, that went to jail for a few weeks, and is on probation for 10 years, as a 'domestic terrorist', because he got mad, and ripped HIS OWN telephone out of the wall :wtf: ... how fucked up, is that ? ... learn to control your temper, it's only hurting YOU ... :smokin: