I would want the guy to accept me for me, regardless. As long as my bills were still being paid, I'm not getting arrested, being irresponsible or neglecting the relationship of course.

I told him I smoked, I assume he doesn't becuase he's in the military but you never know. I have to quit soon before basic training anyway but let's say that I didn't and someone layed that shit on me I would be hurt. Considering if we were dating they obviously liked me when I used pot.