You don't have to change yourself to find a slow and meaningful relationship. I think going with the flow and keeping a good head will be just what you need. If a relationship follows then thats awesome...if not, then you can always enjoy your single life a little while longer. Getting out there and dating is always a great idea, just make sure you have time for yourself and KNOW what you really want before you go for it. I hope your just not pressed for finding love or being in a relationship. That will come naturally and at most times, when you least suspect it!