Quote Originally Posted by devils dream
i have got so much going on in my head it's 4am an i haven't been to sleep to much worryin to do so i thought id get my phone out and distract myself an ended up on here again. see i was wondering if people could give me their opinion on something. my boyfriend recently got diagnosed with depression and a few weeks ago he blamed me for it. outright said he felt i was the cause of his depression and stands by the comment. i just cant get it out of my head. is he right? could i be the reason he is depressed? i cant help worrying he is right and that it's me as my ex was depressed and aggressive was that cos of me too. and if it's me how do i change it?
if depression is a disease then you by no means could have been the cause of it!

possibly it's him being defensive because he's depressed. it's something he can't control. it's easier to blame someone else then to say "i'm screwed up".

-shake