my bf an i have been together a year an a half tho that's not very long we.ve had a lot of troubles in that time mostly circumstantial things that neither of us could prevent just go through and try to fix and we didn't do too badly at it an overcame problems its over the last 4 months that things have changed since depression started the pressure got to him and i can.t blame him when it gets to me too. im sure he'd probably say i wasn't doin much to support him right now and that's because im barely able to handle me let alone be support for someone else. also in his defence the problems with my teeth stem from my phobia of dentists and he has been There every step of the way to hold my hand take me to and from appointments and even acted as middle man to get me go with a dentist as i couldn't bring myself to do it. so to go back to my original question... could it be my fault he is depressed? and also to top things off for me at the moment my window got smashed yesterday by my next door neighbour mowing