well i just couldn't wait and went ahead and clipped the seeded nugs as the seeds looked mature and were popping out of the calyxes. we got about 100 seeds out of the deal so that'll be nice for my next grow. yes, fem seeds all the way! and yes both plants are pollenated but there were a few nugs on this one plant that were HEAVILY seeded. the rest of the plants have very few seeds throughout but there were 4 good ones that were just nothing but seeds.

hopefully this forces more growth up top and i can finish the plants. thanks for the quick replies.