Since the plant is thriving, i doubt they are aphids. They are densly populated in the soil, I just sprayed some "Orthomax: Garden & Landscape Insect Killer" on the soil, and surrounding the clay pot rim. These pesks seem to get really agitated and are sooo small. And definitely there are a few more. I think they derived from dirty soil or plantmix.

I am getting desperate, how dangerous is the soapy-water method? Will the soapy-water kill them? What if the soapy water get's consumed by the plants roots? Is it really bad for the plant??

Negative on the flying pesks, these seem like soil type mites (and again I have no experience or knowledge of pesks other than these do not appear to thrive off the plant)

Thanks and much appreciation, here is a current pic of my baby.

(Below: Plant when I forgot to water it + 99 deg heat)

(below: Resalvaged into cabinet grow, soil is still rich with some type of soil mites)