ok so i had a friend come by for some advice and found that the plant in hte top right corner was a male so i am kindof bumm'd out. the plant that i thought was a female.... had the prettiest node areas forming very sad... so know that leaves me with one less plant... i do have one question... seeing i need to get the plant tht is in a pot with another plant out.... how do i do that with the plants being about 4 inchs apart... i know if i mess with the roots then it can go into shock and possibly die... any suggestions or should i just get a much bigger pot and place them both in there and hope they will fill the space instead of getting tangled roots? I am sorry if i am typing shit-tons in this form but this is quite enjoyable growing my fav plant, learning, and sharing knowledge and this experience