lol no I'm pretty sure he's straight. You guys have some good advice but like most things, it's easier said than done. It wouldn't be so hard if he was just older but he's older and I would say significantly smarter and wittier then me so If I have to formulate a rebutle it has to be solid because one slip up and that's it.

Also interesting theory on making himself feel better. That makes a lot of sense for him because even though he has friends and what not, he's gained some weight over the years and he has girl issues sometimes. Maybe because he's a 30 year old dude with a low paying job and no wife, he's frustrated so he's giving himself an ego boost by preying on weaker people. Btw, he has that low paying job because he was tired of his high paying stressful job and decided to take the pay cut for the cooler more fun job. So I can admire him for that.