I really don't know what I'll do about the whole weed thing. I guess it'll depend on my kids maturity level. If they realize that school is their most important priority and they get really good grades (straight A's) I think I'd have less of a problem with them smoking weed at around 16 or 17, but they would seriously have to be self motivated which most highschool kids, myself included, aren't. I don't know if I'd smoke with them though or allow them to smoke in the house right in front of me, I'd just be scared that someone would find out and tell the cops and social services would take my kids away from me. You know how the gov't is, at least here in the US.