Thats all good Ammie.I have studied and worked part time from when my son was born.It might sound selfish but i couldnt go to work full time with a newborn as i feel thats when they need there mother the most.I will stay home with him until he goes to school as i want to be his main caregiver.I would not be happy at all if my sons father stayed home.We were together for 5 years and he would not marry me because he was married before me.Fuck marriage anyway theres more important things than signing a piece of paper.