thank you all for the help... what i ment by keeping them small was i am just cutting the leafs that make it look bushy... I have not took anything off the top just the sides... Hopefully this will not stress the plant... She seems to be flowering nicely. I posted a vid of the smallest flower cause i had to remove the little flower in order to get the vid of it.. Take a look and let me no what you think... Thank you all for your help..:thumbsup: