I think u should do what u think is best. I wish I could have such an open relationship with my boys about cannabis,but in scandinavia,smoking weed and such is frowned upon.Does who dosent do "drugs" know nothing about them ,but throw out their opinions everywhere. The police will not close their eyes to parents smoking weed.They will contact childservices and fine u to your wallet cries. Therefore I and my husband keep our smoking a seceret for our hopefull. But we got chought some years ago and got childservices on our backs. The whole thing became a sircus and they treated us as if we where heroine adicts.lol. In the end we just moved to another part of the country,and are more carefull about who we get our smoke from. Damnd those loose lips on some people.
I don't think its bad parenting.