I agree with you but the fact is we all got to live in this fucked up society. If you can do it than good for you but if someone found out you have alot to lose.Is gardening Weed with your kid really that important? Why not tomatoes or something. You don't want that weight to be on your childs shoulders to hide your secrets for you I hope. I love weed but I love my 2 kids more.My 2 kids like to plant things too, but pot leafs are becoming more recognizable these days and children can point out "hey thats just like Daddy's plants" you know?
Best of luck my friend