cheating in my opinion is not okay. i mean once you commit to that person than that is it. will there be temptation, always!

i am married. i thought i wanted to cheat once. i "looked" into it. i never went further than that. sidenote, i did have a bunch of gay dudes offer to take care of me though, lol. shortly after i did a little stint in jail over some b.s. that happend like 5 years ago. then i realized how stupid it was to even think about cheating.

my wife takes care of me. i don't work, because she doesn't want me to. sounds similar in your situation. you've also posted a thread about marriage. if you love your women, and are willing to marry her then you have to fight the urge to cheat. if you can't then don't worry about marrying her! truly. it's not just about you once you take it to that level. it is about ya'll!

who's gonna be writing you while you are in jail, holding it down for you, that booty call or your woman?! that was a metaphor, i don't expect nor do i want you to go to jail!

cheating is not cool. an open marriage or relationship is something that is agreed upon in advance.

fighting the urge you have to cheat is a step in the right direction of putting america back where it needs to be. i know it sounds stupid, but it's true. we have no morals or values anymore. we will sell our soul for a quick buck.

it's not always easy, sometimes it's damn hard, but it has to and must be done. you can satisfy your own urges, or wait.

just curious as to how she would feel if it was a male booty call though?

glad you found the boards!

-shake