I greatly appreciate all advice...very good points made and I will def. take all suggestions into consideration.

This is really a subject that filled my thoughts with consideration of many routes....it kinda just comes down to good ol' philosophy and moral teachings before anything else...then like you guys say...let them decide for themselves once they're old enough.

Keep 'em comin' y'all I'm still interested in your opinions....is there anybody else who has been through a similar situation as this???