what nowhereman said is very true too.If you have a small penis i would be getting her doing her pelvic floor exercises.I started doing them when i was pregnant with my son because i thought childbirth would make me loose as a goose.That did not happen as i was being stitched for over 1 hour and when i had sex for the first time (3 mths later and was still tender) it was like i was a virgin again no kidding.I have always done them to keep it in good shape.I think women should take care down there and keep it looking ok.I am a bit paranoid of the scar there its just lucky that the one i love is the only one that sees it