Quote Originally Posted by ManUtd523
I talked to my dad tonight and told him what I was wanting to do, which is grow in my room...Anyways, I have to hide it from my mom
If you are old enough and mature enough to ask dad to let you grow then why are you both hiding it from your mom? Does your dad live in the same house as her? And he agrees that the best course of action is to hide a felony from your mom, in her house? If you are carded for cannabis use/growing...you should march right up to her and tell her the doctor prescribed the meds, and that you could use her help.

You are overtly pitting your mom against your dad, but it sounds like you've gotten pretty good at it. Playing these games are good way to develop family unity, strength, hope and trust. And I hope it all works out, as the memory of disrespect lasts a lifetime. (especially in parents) :jointsmile:

So which one do you respect more? Mom for having the morals to make her values known and adhered-to, or dad...because his moral standards are cool and he doesn't really give a shit what you do?

Factoring in all you've said...IMHO you sound underage, full of shit, and disrespectful of at least one of your parents.