When you find yourself around people being vindictive and hateful to the point it is giving you a financial and mental anchor: Yet, hang onto the belief of forgiveness and cannot hate--they just keep it up, regardless of how assertive you may be! It beats you down to the point, you start reminding yourself that person must prescribe to the belief that "God is all Forgiving" and the ten commandments mean nothing (at the least, as good set of morals to live by and do well by yoursefl and others). So, I just forgive and go on. But, some just keep pounding and pounding at you.

A lifetime of forgiveness is now under review!

I believe do unto others as they do onto you. Unless, it is against the 10 commandments. With the exception of people I do not trust and they lie 24/7; I figure at some point, I do not say much to them and what I do is a lie. I really feel like, when they can't tell you the truth, why set an example, after 10 years and they don't catch on, let them see what it feels like! Childish, now that I read it. Guess, I'd better stop! PR :jointsmile: