ā??He who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with what he would like to haveā?
Socrates

I focus daily morning and night on what makes me happy. Sure there is shit happens but I shrug it off. When something happens that may be perceived as negative people around me say stuff like "You must feel terrible". Well no. I feel great because I have my family. I'm doing what I love and no matter what happens there is always something positive in my life no matter how small.