FreshNugz...I agree with the good intentions part of it, and often that's generally the case (futile as it may be); it's only when said scathingly or condescendingly that it irks me.

Johnny...I see what you're saying, man. You did acknowledge that one's disposition can't really be helped, which I appreciate. With some it's more a question of having the lemons and really wanting to make lemonade but just not having hands strong enough to squeeze them.

MadSativa....I'm guessing no one confides in you very often, if that's the response they get. People often feel ashamed of their feelings because of our whole stiff-upper-lip culture, so things tend to fester inside a lot.