The spots in the middle of the leaves looks like nutrient solution was dripped on them and left to dry, which can kill leaf tissue. But the fingertip and leaf-edge neckrosis looks like overfert. Since you've been flushing them (too much) I'm sure there's no salt build-up that FF is known for.

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ive touched the black growth and its just the leaf not mold. some leaves and stems fall off easily as well.
On most plants, black is death, not growth. :thumbsup:

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ive flushed several times and have been adding cal to the water and small amounts of tiger bloom.
Why the calcium additive, and what kind? This will keep throwing your soil ph off whack. And how much of the Tiger Bloom, and how often. Have you seen their nutrient schedule? Fox Farm Nutrient Schedule

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growth isnt stunted, everything just looks abnormal and out of whack. If its not a def and a lockout ill need to get a ph tester i guess.
Knowing your water ph is fairly important, and a question you'll be asked whenever you look for troubleshooting help.
If you are cash-strapped, a freshwater aquarium ph test kit goes for around $7.00 or so. Otherwise, a ph pen goes for $60 and up, plus calibration solution.
The aquarium test kit is ok for ingoing water without nutes, but is unusable with nuted water and runoff. It's a color-coded result, and any tinting of the water will skew accurate results.