i think what he means is relax and get to know some people before popping the "i need..." question. it makes people nervous to see that as a 1st post, nothing personal. it's not much diff than r/l in that respect...

in the meantime, i know jay's joints openly advertises and info on him can be found at cannabisculture...maybe here by now too. might try a search here too.

drop by the chat...many hang in there too.