Maybe I can help...Your problem is your dealing with somebody that is vibrationally fucked. In other words she is what you call an energy vampire and constantly needs to feed off other peoples energy...there is something very dark and evil with her and your best bet is to not deal with her anymore...she is sucking the energy out of you and you become emotionally drained after dealing with her....We are coming to a transistional period in the world and it will become very dangerous dealing with her type....
save your self and your family and kick her out!!!!