It seems like this only thing this thread has to do about marijuana is the title. You don't seem to have much of a problem. Just because you don't want to have a girlfriend (that's what it seems like) doesn't mean you have a problem. I'm the type of person that like to be able to do what I want to do when I want to do it -- and to be honest, it's really not that much. I don't like to be set on other people's schedules and that's almost how I feel about girlfriends.
I feel like if I have a girlfriend, I'll always have to be doing something when she wants to do it.. like I have to call her, have to hang out with her, have to do this or that.
Honestly, I'm not too sure what your problem is here. I would say as long as you are happy with your situation, dont be all that worried about it. If you want a girlfriend, it seems like you can easily get one. If you dont want a girlfriend yet, don't worry about it. Dont let society pressure you into things you arent ready for yet. I'm guessing you are still fairly young and have plenty of time left. Do what you want for now, whatever makes you happy. You have enough time for everything else serious in life.
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