imo not worth the risk. if you can't even be around to nurse the thing (and chances are it WILL need nursing), then what's the point of exposing yourself to someone who might not appreciate what you're doing? and by "not appreciating" i mean happily kicking you out. i'm assuming your a college student, and any1 in their right mind would instantly disregard the tomatoes and/or other nutritionally wholesome and benign plants and know it's a classic case of student-grows-pot-in-his-dorm case shut and closed know what i mean? beautiful plant btw, i can see you loved her well. but man, wouldn't you be embarrassed if you got caught with a half dead, neglected plant? sorry for the buzz kill, but u knew it was coming.

p.s. how are you so sure it's a female? usually takes a couple weeks into flower before any signs are shown.