I agree, possibly speak to them about getting an indica strain.

My advice is, if you are completely new to marijuana, just try to make your surroundings, mood, etc...very relaxed and calm. comfortable.
do something you like, read, watch/listen to something, anything you want that is calm..and then smoke.
Start by being comfortable in your normal state, then smoking. make sure you have eaten, had something to drink, etc. as well. Keep a drink with you if it helps.When you smoke you may find your mouth becomes dry.
Not eating and drinking will make you lightheaded after a certain period, and I would argue that getting very high with that pre-condition may cause it to worsen.

Wish you the best:thumbsup: