Quote Originally Posted by headshake
that's good advice, in my opinion. i'm 29, just for reference as well. i've always heard the friends you make during college will be your life long friends. i look at it more as a metaphor as opposed to literally. i myself never went to college (as of yet) but did join the marines immediately after graduating high school. i did know a lot of people in high school. then in the marines i had a core group of 4 other guys that are like my brothers. they don't all live near me but i stay in touch. that's my family. i still know a guy that i went to elementary school with. we live 20 mins apart and i don't see him often but when i do it's like nothing has changed. sorry i'm rambling, i'm blazed.

basically it boils down to this, you have to know and love yourself before you can know and love someone else. yes i love my male friends, in a purely hetro way! if weed makes you happy and you don't want to stop and your friend really doesn't want to be around you and what not, then so be it! if he's gonna flake on you for something like that think about if some real sh*t went down?! would he flake on you then? it's not like your are mainlining heroin!!! just my two cents.

-shake
Thanks for the advice guys, it was good but let me explain myself a little more. I'm 19 years old, and my friend like like a brother to me. He is always there when i need him and thats mainly why I want to stay friend with him and am tripping about that. If he was some guy i know it wouldn't be a big deal but like i said...hes a brother to me and that makes it more complicated. The getting drunk and punching him in the face wouldn't work either haha because he always wants to fight drunk :wtf:. I swear i've talked to him about it so many times and shot off my views and points and he never has anything to say besides "i simply just don't like it." He said even if it cured cancer he wouldn't like it....like wtf is it really possible to hate a plant that does absolutely no harm that much?