Quote Originally Posted by theforthdrive
LOL, funny but bad advice!

I didnt see an age on your profile so I may be way off base but Ill tell you my observations about life. Im 30 for reference! When I was in HS I had hundreds of friends... a bit of a social butterfly. In college, the first time, lol, I had less but more than I could count. As I aged my friends changed and became less in quantity. And now have maybe 4 I talk to on a regular basis and 5 or so I keep in contact with. My myspace friends list is littered with people that I used to see/hang with everyday. Now we hardly talk, if at all. I think its just part of life. Sounds like your friend and you are growing apart. It sucks but is just a part of life. When I was a child I could never understand how my mother called a lady she saw once a year her best friend. I saw mine everyday at school. Today it makes more sense.

My advice would be treat him how you would want to be treated. Take what he gives you. If he pushes you away, let him. But be there if he come around. Friends come and go, be true to yourself! :stoned:
that's good advice, in my opinion. i'm 29, just for reference as well. i've always heard the friends you make during college will be your life long friends. i look at it more as a metaphor as opposed to literally. i myself never went to college (as of yet) but did join the marines immediately after graduating high school. i did know a lot of people in high school. then in the marines i had a core group of 4 other guys that are like my brothers. they don't all live near me but i stay in touch. that's my family. i still know a guy that i went to elementary school with. we live 20 mins apart and i don't see him often but when i do it's like nothing has changed. sorry i'm rambling, i'm blazed.

basically it boils down to this, you have to know and love yourself before you can know and love someone else. yes i love my male friends, in a purely hetro way! if weed makes you happy and you don't want to stop and your friend really doesn't want to be around you and what not, then so be it! if he's gonna flake on you for something like that think about if some real sh*t went down?! would he flake on you then? it's not like your are mainlining heroin!!! just my two cents.

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headshake Reviewed by headshake on . Ironic Predicament So my friend of 6 years told me today that for the past year and a half my smoking has really annoyed him. Lately he has stopped talking to me as much, and when we do hang out I have to be sober or else he gets all pissed. I respect his beliefs towards it, however, not smoking weed is just something I don't plan on doing. Even now as I sent him a message asking him why he gets so mad about it I smoke a bowl and everything becomes clear. I haven't smoked all day and when I went to write to him I Rating: 5