When someone speaks from a place of unbalance, from a place of control, it is obvious. They are speaking from the mind lets say, but they have no idea of any other portion of themselves, they don??t understand who they are deep down. So if you speak with this individual and, let??s say, they become angry over something. Their words are charged with an emotion. They become angry and lose themselves in the emotion. They are lost in something. Some have this even when they are speaking normally. Lost in some emotion; I would say some form of fear would be what the majority express themselves with. You can even see it in confident ones. Some underlying emotion, something the consciousness latches onto that aids in their false sense of self worth. I say false because it is something that is unreal, illusionary. Unreal might not be the best term because of course it is real, however, it is fleeting and as such it is not concrete, not stable. So, the confidence is shaky and can drop at a moments notice as soon as the attachment that caused the confidence fades. It is quite the dilemma we humans are in, this control that our consciousness can??t seem to let go of. And that control of course is thought, mind, ??substance?, ??form?. There is nothing wrong with form. Form is necessary. Form is. But it is this lack of understanding that form just is that causes great conflict. You cannot have anything without form. Formless, space, Source, God, cannot exist without it. So, it is this symbiosis of form and formless that are essential. It is not leaving form behind, although some choose this. And that is fine, but to be here in this form, yet acting from the formless, that is truly living.