wow friend, that is quite a scenario.

i think a more serious problem, one that doesn't have to do with weed, is that you and your wife are incompatible lovers.

what my religious beliefs are have nothing to do with this, but what you basically explain about not having sex until marriage and then finding out you're incompatible lovers, THAT is the #1 reason i do not believe abstinence until marriage. regardless of what any book or religion says, sex and love-making, or whatever you call it, is a large large part of having a relationship.

sexual fulfillment is a very big part of relationships, and it also helps with one's self image. it has a plethora of advantages that i can't even think about at the moment. perhaps that is a more important part of the story that needs addressing?

it's still fucked up about her dramatics. it really blows your mind when something like this happens and you begin to witness the true colors of an individual.