Quote Originally Posted by painretreat
Coelho: gay means joyful! I believe! and you got a cheerful hug. Take it for what it is, as you kindly did and with such confidence--I love it! You are not being insulted, unconditionallly loved by so many of us! I think a lot of you! A psychological fact. those that are uncomfortable with 'gays' are generally uncomfortable with their own sex identity. I see you as a strong and confident man, from ever so many posts and threads I've read by you! I rad and think, I hope I go to Brazil one day, what a jewel they have there!

So a very nice lady bug hug to you-hope it helps! Plus, I think with all your awesome receipes--I thot you were a chick for quite some time! I think you rock and have a great deal of self confidence and hi on the likeability chart! Plus, you were MAN ENOUGH to say, :wtf: hugs back. That takes a very well adjusted person to do that! I cannot believe you are single-but some like it for all the time, some for some of the time and some for none of the time!
A man that cooks weed, rocks--that is all there is to it and bakes it too! Am waiting for your Barnes & Noble mmj cookbook! I do like you as you are! Have learned so much from you and respect you. You is !
Wow Painretreat! If i were prone to blushing, i would be pretty red right now...

Well... i wasnt really annoyed with their hugs... i was only following the "males code of conduct" which states, among other things, that men must react angrily at anything that resemble gayness (in the usual [not joyful] meaning), or even anything that be not very manly... Gandalf is a man, and im pretty sure Bhouncy is also, so i was sure they would understand. It was not serious, thats why i put the s.

Its very sexist, i know... and im sure you only thought i was a woman because i never show my sexist opinions here... if i did so, you wouldnt only be sure i am a man, but also would think im a chauvinist pig... lol!

Anyway... conducts code or not, i always enjoy a ladys hug, so *hugs back*
If you ever come to Brasil some day, tell me, so you will have the opportunity to give me a real hug... you will be very welcome here, and im sure you will love here! We brasilians love foreign people, ask anyone who have been here... and its a wonderful place! Beautiful places, nice weather, nice people, no hurricanes, no earthquakes, no wars, no terrorists... and if a cop catch you with weed (what rarely happens), some $10 is all you need...

BTW my experience with cooking with weed is far more theoretical than practical... unfortunately i only had plenty of weed during one year, when i tried all the recipes i could think of... now i only can remember that good days and dream about when i will have the opportunity to revive them again...

And yes, even being so "likeable", "self-confident", "strong" and all that very kind words you said, im single... not by lack of girls, but by my own choice. When i used to have feelings, i knew how feels to love someone and dont be loved back. As now i have not feelings anymore, i know that if i started a relationship with a girl, it would be only to harm her feelings, cause she would be loving me while i wouldnt be loving her back. As i dont think its nice to harm anyone in such cruel way, i prefer to be alone.

Concerning unconditional love, i think its better give it than recieve it. As almost anything else, recieving is good, but giving is better. I cant explain, but it feels different. So, if you can spread love for the people around you, do it, and enjoy. Cause it will do a lot of good to you, more than you can even concieve... and if you only get evil from other people, even better for you. Once i did read a very interesting thing that was something like this:
"When you do good for someone, you are accumulating virtue for you, and when you do evil for someone, youre giving they your own virtue."
So, if you do good, you get virtue, and if they pay you back with evil, you get even more virtue... I think its a thing to think about...
Coelho Reviewed by Coelho on . Do you practice Unconditional Love? Well? For me it is the most beautiful thing. Loving the universe and everything in it. I practice it daily. If I have been hurt by someone I practice it. Love and Peace to all you wonderful people. Rating: 5