Here's a good link that addresses this issue: http://talksexwithsue.com/premature.html. She suggests the male version of Kiegel exercises, which sounds like a great idea (us ladies shouldn't be the only ones doing them, lol). Also, a cock ring can help control premature ejaculation as well; they can be purchased at your local adult store or on sites such as www.adameve.com. Some rings also have 'nubs' to help stimulate the lady as well, woohoo!