I think something got deleted, oh well! I always get in too late!

I agree with Stinky: Make a list of what you want.

db: Nothing wrong with being 'just friends!' If they choose you for a friend, then they must have girlfriends that are more like you and you will get along with. Hang around and meet their other friends, ask her to bring them along! You never know who you will meet! Nothing is instant, takes time and patience! You will meet the right special person!

This is a time in your life, you are taking inventory! I lost my father at the same age. It is not a good time for starting a new relationship, mostly it may be out of pity! You are busy grieving the loss of the most important man in your life-deal with one problem at a time! You had a major loss! My heart goes out to you! This is your time to grieve. Sorry you don't have a shoulder to do it on, try your puppy! This will pass with time! It is a difficult time for you!

We both live in states that are too superficial! Be patient! Lots of luck to you! PR :thumbsup: