wanted: stoner chick that has enough friends

[Breukelen advocaat]

Sorry about your father, I know how difficult that is.

I'd suggest that you just try casual dating. Maybe go online with those dating sites and play the field. There is even a dating website called Pot Partners, which matches up stoners. And don't worry too much about the "we can be friends" line that women often use - it's just a precaution on their part and if you play your cards right you may get closer. Plenty of relationships started out that way. Look at the good side of it: You are an eligible bachelor, are employed and drive. Most married or divorced guys are in a much worse situation than you are. I didn't get married until my 40's, and I wouldn't change a thing.

[SnSstealth]

jah1son,

good first paragraph, thanks for the advise:thumbsup:. but please read site rules. their have been alot of troubles lately with people requesting things

db

[rebgirl420]

Awww hun. My Dad died this April so I know how you feel.

Sometimes it feels like the whole world is crushing you. It gets better.

I am not a drinker. I do not like guys who drink. John doesn't do either, smoke pot OR drink and I'd rather have that (though I wish he smoked).

The girls that you stated above are the type of girls you don't want to be around anyway. Losers really.

Don't get too down babe. Were here for you!

xoxox

[painretreat]

I think something got deleted, oh well! I always get in too late!

I agree with Stinky: Make a list of what you want.

db: Nothing wrong with being 'just friends!' If they choose you for a friend, then they must have girlfriends that are more like you and you will get along with. Hang around and meet their other friends, ask her to bring them along! You never know who you will meet! Nothing is instant, takes time and patience! You will meet the right special person!

This is a time in your life, you are taking inventory! I lost my father at the same age. It is not a good time for starting a new relationship, mostly it may be out of pity! You are busy grieving the loss of the most important man in your life-deal with one problem at a time! You had a major loss! My heart goes out to you! This is your time to grieve. Sorry you don't have a shoulder to do it on, try your puppy! This will pass with time! It is a difficult time for you!

We both live in states that are too superficial! Be patient! Lots of luck to you! PR :thumbsup:

[rebgirl420]

Sorry about your father, I know how difficult that is.

I'd suggest that you just try casual dating. Maybe go online with those dating sites and play the field. There is even a dating website called Pot Partners, which matches up stoners. And don't worry too much about the "we can be friends" line that women often use - it's just a precaution on their part and if you play your cards right you may get closer. Plenty of relationships started out that way. Look at the good side of it: You are an eligible bachelor, are employed and drive. Most married or divorced guys are in a much worse situation than you are. I didn't get married until my 40's, and I wouldn't change a thing.

Online dating can be fabulous. I met my fiance John on a dating site. It's a great way to really get to know someone 1 on 1 (without all the extra hoopla and distractions).

[painretreat]

Oops, did another post disappear while I was writing?? Um!! PR

[SnSstealth]

I really would like to have them as friends. they are all pretty cool chicks(thats why i was interested in the first place), and two of the recent ones i am friends with. a girl ive known for 5 years is seeing my roommate and i couldnt be happier for them. its been my experience though that when i hear that line, its usually the last time i hear from them. I dont dare call one twice or I might be labeled a stalker...:wtf:

yes im trying to just focus on one problem at a time, but thats been hard for me to do lately. my minds all over the place...my dad, the grow, no money till after grow, game-playing bitches, slow at work............it just bounces around in there. cant wait for my super indicas to maybe clear the process out.

db:smokin:

[painretreat]

Now, I understand why you changed your avatar! Sorta fits all you are enduring at the time you changed it!!

Don't feel so alone, I think we gals learned the line from a few men. Want to email the last one I met and see? Been there. He was so busy looking for a wife, he could not see anything!

My neighbor met a woman on line at age 50 and they were married within 2 weeks and adopting kids within a few months. Asking neighbors to give written recommendations for them to adopt. We had no clue who she was! Once I met her (being the only person in the hood that knew the guys mom) I could see--he married his mother! Ick!! they did not get along and we'll see how this works!

It would seem your room-mate owes you. Wherever you met that gal, maybe you ought to go back there! And next time you really dig a gal, don't bring her home for your room-mate to date! I did not think guys did that to each other. Thot it was female exclusive!

I like to think, there is something better waiting for you! Are you planning on moving, also? Keep your chin up and eyes open.

Statistics say, more men meet women in the grocery store! I expect in the vege section. Find a woman that looks unattached, without ice cream in the cart and start asking for her wisdom at picking a vege and how to store it, etc. Move the converstion from there to a ph. #. Don't be over anxious. That turns people off! Call and chit chat a little with her, email and get to know her on line. Then ask for a date. Just a thought. But, there actually do studies on this!

A lot of love is going your way!

[SnSstealth]

the avatar is WT. i usually dont change it....but good observation...lol

I wont be marrying anyone in two weeks...ive already met her...three kids @ her parents house, apparently just left her man. she condensed a 6 month relationship in to two weeks...talkin about getting a place together after a week:wtf: and couldnt take the lets wait and see approach...put the brakes on that.

and its not really like that with the roommate. ive known her for years and already knew im not getting her. shes actually one of my friends.

thanks for the tips everyone. im gonna just layback and try to deal one at a time. i should have the freedom to play in a few months, so im gonna take care of myself so ill be able to enjoy it. this site and my new found hobby help this immensely:thumbsup:

db:smokin: