How about a photo of your roots......all trust aside. Good that you have some stuff going well but lack of Cal Mag is a biggie.....and tells me that there are some gaps in your knowledge so trust isn't really the issue here.....knowledge is.

They're your plants.....I have no time or energy to argue abo ut things. You asked for assistance and I offered what I know....that's all you'll get from me and if you're darn sure you know whats right and whats not I'll leave you to it.

Sorry to sound like such a bitch but I've just received a bit of pretty bad news so my remaining time is literally limited.....and I have no intention spending what energy I have left defending or justifying my knowledge or suggestions to folks who ASKED for information only to discount it. Again....I KNOW how bitchy this sounds and I am sorry for that.......but I just don't have the time to waste convincing people of things these days.

Best of luck to you and I really do mean that.