first thanks for the info... now not to sound rude..It was not a family fighting against eachother..It was another family who had been bullying my daughter for a yr.,..and the girls older brother who was in highschool...picked my daughter up and slammed her on the street..and my family became tired of the nonsense...so like I said simple assault...I took the rap for my neices...any how as for the weight.,..yes I know i need to lose weight..and have already started doing so..not everyone is skinny nor is everyone going to be,,,not everyone is fat nor are they going to be,...and some people cant lose weight and some people can..I am limited on the type of exercise I can do ..due to health reasons... but changing what I eat I can do...but thank you for the advice if you read this and god bless ..oh and it was 3 charges of simple assault...I am in pa...ones nose was broke and the other two had concussions... that is why I have 2yrs probation