I'm pretty sure it's automatic that it becomes a two-way friendship. Let me try it and see. I'll request your friendship and we'll see if you then see me listed as your pal, too, when you accept me.

I have a question myself about the friend situation. If someone "breaks a friendship" does that then send a note of some kind to the person who's lost a friend? I'm not intending to break any friendships, and goodness knows I wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. But one of the interesting things about this little feature, or perhaps it's a phenomenon that's unique to mods, is that occasionally members you've never seen before or talked to request friendships.

Let's experiment on this, Reaper. I'll request your friendship. I adore hermits. Then you can break the friendship and we'll see if I get a "Dear Bird" message. That's like a Dear John letter, only much more heartbreakingly cyber-sad. Then we can make up and be friends again, I hope. If we can't, I won't be able to go on living.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . 'Friend' invitations ?? OK, my question is probably dumb, but people seldom want to be my friend, regardless :D ... when I get a 'friend' request, and I accept it, am I automatically on their friend list, too ? .. or, do I need to ask them for friend status ?? ... (this 'friend' stuff confuses me, ain't easy being a hermit sometimes) :jointsmile: Rating: 5